I have a friend that is younger than me that i sometimes text and talk to, try to be a good influence on her. Today i texted her and I asked her how she was doing and she said terrible, i asked why, she said the story is too long to text. i tell her ok, but if she needs somebody to talk to i am here. She then asks me if i knew what ticks her off, i said no what? She says she hates it when people on fb or in school say that they wish they never knew there father, just because they wont let them do whatever they want, because she never meet her father and she has always wanted to have him in her life even tho all she has ever heard about him was that he is some druggie and drunk waste of space. I cant tell her that i know how she feel cause i know and love my father, there have been times ive wanted to hate him, especially when he left my mom and then a month later started dating a women. All i can tell her is im sorry she feels that way and im here for her, wish i could tell her something more comforting…but Im a lucky one that didn’t have to deal with that kind of pain..